"Have Tender Affection A against the Other"
In the case of brotherly love, have tender affection for one another. "- ROMANS 12:10.1, 2. What relationship possessed a modern-day missionary and Paul with their brothers?
DURING 43 years of service gospel envoy in the Far East, Don was known for the warm nature of the people he served. As he lay against the disease, some people who have studied the Bible with him to travel thousands of kilometers to visit her and say "Kamsahamnida, kamsahamnida!" - "Thank you, thank you!" In Korean. Don tender affection had touched their hearts.
2 Don's experience is not a unique occurrence. In the first century, the apostle Paul expressed deep affection for those he served. Paul was willing to sacrifice for them. Although he was a strong opinionated man, he was also gentle and caring, "as a nursing mothers love their children themselves". He wrote to the congregation in Thessalonica, "Because it has a tender affection towards you, we are happy to give you not only the good news of God, but also our own souls, because you have become the people we love." (1 Thessalonians 2: 7, 8) Later, when Paul told his Ephesian brothers that they would not see him again, "they all wept bitterly, and they embraced Paul's neck and kissed her gently". (Acts 20:25, 37) Clearly, the relationship between Paul and his brothers were much deeper than just the relationship between fellow believers. They have tender affection for one another.
Gentle Love and Love
3. How does the Bible terms for affection and love related?
3 In the Scriptures, tender affection, fellow feeling, and compassion is closely related to the nature of Christianity's most noble love. (1 Thessalonians 2: 8; 2 Peter 1: 7) Like the facets of a beautiful diamond, all these godly qualities offset each other and complementary. These properties not only make Christians closer to one another but also to their heavenly Father. Therefore, the apostle Paul urged fellow believers: "Let your love without hypocrisy. , , , In the case of brotherly love, have tender affection for one another. "- Romans 12: 9, 10.
4. What does the expression "tender affection"?
4 The Greek word that Paul used for "tender affection" is composed of two parts, one meaning friendship and the other, natural affection. As explained an expert on the Bible, this means that Christians "should be recognized from the devotion that is characteristic of a loving family, intimate, and mutual support". Is that what you feel for Christian brothers and sisters you? The atmosphere is warm-kinship-should permeate the Christian congregation. (Galatians 6:10) Thus, The New Testament in Modern English, by JB Phillips translates Romans 12:10, "Let us have compassion really warm for one another as between brothers." and, The Jerusalem Bible translates it, "love one another as appropriate among brothers." Yes, Christians love one another, not just because it makes sense or because they feel obliged. With "brotherly affection that is not hypocritical," we should "love one another earnestly from the heart '.- 1 Peter 1:22.
"Taught by God to Love One Another"
5, 6. (a) How did Jehovah has been using international meetings to teach his people about Christian affection? (B) How does the bond between brothers become stronger over a period of time?
5 Although in this world "the love of" being cooled off, Jehovah is teaching his people at this time "to love one another". (Matthew 24:12; 1 Thessalonians 4: 9) international crusades Jehovah's Witnesses is a prominent opportunity for this training. At these meetings, local Witnesses meet brothers and sisters from a distant land, and many are providing homes to foreign delegates. At a recent service, nothing came from countries whose inhabitants do not usually express their feelings. "When these delegates first arrived, they were very nervous and timid," the story of a Christian from the boarding. "But just six days later when they had to part, they hugged each other and the host and in tears. They have felt the surge of Christian love that they will never forget. "Showing mercy to our brothers and sisters, no matter what their background, can bring out the best traits of the guests and hosts rumah.-Romans 12:13.
6 Although experience during the service as it was fun, much more intimate relationship exists when Christians serve Jehovah together over a period of time. When we know our brothers well, we can more fully appreciate the nature of their interest-honesty, fidelity, loyalty, kindness, generosity, sympathy, compassion and selflessness. (Psalm 15: 3-5; Proverbs 19:22) Mark, who served as a missionary in East Africa, said, "By working shoulder to shoulder with our brothers and sisters, there grew a bond that is unbreakable."
7. What should we do to enjoy Christian affection in the congregation?
7 To achieve and maintain such a bond within a congregation, members must draw closer to each other. By regularly attending meetings, we strengthen the bond that we have with our brothers and sisters. By attending and participating before, during, and after meetings, we encourage each other and move "to love and good deeds". (Hebrews 10:24, 25) "I still prefer to remember," the story of an elder in the United States, "when I was a kid, my family was always among the last to leave the Kingdom Hall, enjoying the familiar and meaningful conversation as long as possible."
Should You 'Open Up Wide-Width'?
8. (a) What does Paul mean when he urged the Corinthians to 'open wide'? (B) What can we do to raise affection in the congregation?
8 To show this love to the fullest, we might need to 'open wide our hearts'. The Apostle Paul wrote to the congregation in Corinth, "Our hearts are wide open. For you there is a wide place in us. "Paul urged them to welcome the 'open wide'. (2 Corinthians 6: 11-13) Can you too 'wide open' in terms of affection are you? You do not need to wait for someone else to take the initiative. In his letter to the Romans, Paul associate the necessity of having tender affection with this advice: "In terms of showing honor, let precede each other." (Romans 12:10) To show respect to others, you can take the initiative to greet the brothers and sisters in association. You also can invite them to serve or jointly prepare materials association. By doing this, we open up opportunities for tender affection to grow.
9. What steps have been taken several people to get closer to his fellow Christians? (Include the local instance if one exists.)
9 Families and individuals in the congregation can 'open wide' with each visit, perhaps while enjoying a simple meal, and participate in healthy activities together. (Luke 10:42; 14: 12-14) Hakop sometimes hold a picnic in a small group. "Young and old, all of them participated, including single parents," he said. "Everything is home with sweet memories, and they feel closer to one another." As Christians, we should strive to be not only a brother but also a friend sejati.-3 John 14.
10. What can be done if our relationship with our brothers and sisters in trouble?
10 However, sometimes imperfections can hinder us to cultivate friendship and affection. What can we do? First of all, we can pray for good relations with our brothers and sisters. God wants His servants to get along harmoniously, and he will answer such sincere prayers. (1 John 4:20, 21; 5:14, 15) We should also act in harmony with our prayers. Ric, a traveling minister in East Africa, recalls a brother who is hard to get along because his personality is annoying. "Instead of avoiding the brother, I resolved to get to know him," said Ric. "As it turned out, her father was a disciplinarian that are too rigid. As soon as I understood how hard the struggle to overcome this background and how far he has succeeded, I admired him. We became best friends. "- 1 Peter 4: 8.
Open Heart You!
11. (a) What is needed in order to love grow in the congregation? (B) Why shut yourself attitude can damage our spirituality?
11 Today, many people go through life without ever developing a friendship with anyone. How sad! This need not-and should not-occur in the Christian congregation. Sincere brotherly love is not just small talk and manners; nor excessive emotion. Instead, we should be willing to open our heart, as Paul did to the Corinthians, and show our fellow believers that we are very concerned about their welfare. While not everyone is sociable demeanor or easily express his feelings, too aloof attitude can be damaging. "One isolating himself will seek selfish desire," says the Bible warns. "Against all practical wisdom he will explode." - Proverbs 18: 1.
12. Why is good communication is essential to foster close relationships in the congregation?
12 honest communication is fundamental to true friendship. (John 15:15) We all need friends to devote our thoughts and feelings are the deepest. In addition, the more we know each other, the easier for us to meet each other's needs. When we show concern each other in this way, we raise tender affection, and we will feel the truth of the words of Jesus, "Much happier giving than receiving." - Acts 20:35; Philippians 2: 1-4.
13. What can we do to show that we have a genuine affection toward our brothers?
13 For our affection helpful, we need to express it. (Proverbs 27: 5) When our affection is real, it would look on our faces and can move the hearts of others to welcome. "The eyes were brilliant make the heart rejoice," says a Bible proverb. (Proverbs 15:30) Measures attentive also garner tender affection. Although no one can buy true affection, a gift given with genuine great significance. A card, a letter, and "word spoken at the right time" -all these can express deep affection. (Proverbs 25:11; 27: 9) As soon as we make friends, we must maintain it by continuing to show unselfish affection. Especially during these difficult times, we want to support our friends. The Bible says, "A true companion is loving all the time, and a brother is born for when there is distress." - Proverbs 17:17.
14. What can we do if someone seems not to welcome our affection?
14 Realistically, we can not expect to be familiar with everyone in the congregation. Naturally, if we feel more familiar with certain people. So, if someone does not seem to be as hot as you would expect, do not quickly conclude that there is something wrong with you or with that person. And, do not try to force him to be familiar with you. If you would still show a friendly attitude to the man as far as he wants, you do not close the opportunity to establish more intimate relationships later in life.
"I'm Pleased To you"
15. What is the effect on others if we give praise, or vice versa, do not give it away?
15 How bersukacitanya of Jesus when he was baptized, he heard the words from heaven, "I have approved you"! (Mark 1:11) The expression of this approval must have deepened Jesus' conviction that his Father had affection for him. (John 5:20) Sadly, some never hear such praise from people they respect and love. "There are many young people like me who have family members not in the faith," said Ann. "At home, we hear only criticism. We are very sad. "However, when they become part of the trial, they felt the warmth and support of a caring spiritual family-fathers and mothers and brothers and sisters in iman.-Mark 10:29, 30; Galatians 6:10.
16. Why show a critical attitude toward others is of no use?
16 In some cultures, fathers, mothers, elders, and teachers rarely express wholehearted compliment to a younger crowd, because they thought that praise can make them complacent or a big head. Such thinking can even affect Christian families and the congregation. Commenting on a talk or other effort, older people may say, "Not bad, but you should be even better!" Or, in some other way, they even gave the impression of dissatisfaction with the younger crowd. Many people think that by doing so they're motivated to develop the potential of young people to the fullest. However, this approach often backfires, because the young man can shut down or feel unable to meet expectations.
17. Why should we seek opportunities to commend others?
17 However, the praise should not be given only as a prelude to counsel. A sincere compliment improve tender affection within the family and the congregation, so encourage younger people to seek advice from experienced brothers. So rather than letting culture dictate how you treat others, let us "put on the new personality which was created according to the will of God, in true righteousness and loyalty." Give praise as Jehovah do.-Ephesians 4:24.
18. (a) Young people, how you should look at the advice of an older person? (B) Why are older people to be careful with regard to how they give you advice?
18 On the other hand, young people, do not conclude that older people do not like you if they are correct or admonish you. (Ecclesiastes 7: 9) On the contrary! Most likely, they are moved by the concern and deep affection towards you. Otherwise, why would they bother to talk to you about it? Knowing how much those words, older people-particularly the elders-often spend a lot of time to think and pray before giving advice, because they just want to do what baik.-1 Peter 5: 5.
"Jehovah Very Tender in Affection"
19. Why do people who've let down can turn to Jehovah for support?
19 Because of a bad experience, some people may feel that showing tender affection would only lead to further disappointment. It takes fortitude and a strong faith in their party to back open their hearts to others. However, they should never forget that Jehovah "is not far from each one of us". He invites us to draw near to Him. (Acts 17:27; James 4: 8) He also understands that we are afraid of being hurt, and he promises to support and help us. Psalmist David assures us: "Jehovah is near to those who are broken-hearted; and the people he rescued contrite spirit. "- Psalm 34:18.
20, 21. (a) How do we know that we can establish a close relationship with Jehovah? (B) What are the conditions that we enjoy intimacy with Jehovah?
20 Friendship familiar with Jehovah is the most important relationship we can fertilizer. But, is it possible to cultivate a friendship like this? Yes. The Bible reveals how closely the feelings of many men and women righteous with our heavenly Father. Their warm expression has been preserved to convince us that we too can draw close to Jehovah.-Psalms 23, 34, 139; John 16:27; Romans 15: 4.
21 Terms of Jehovah for a person to be familiar with Him can be met by everyone. "Oh, Jehovah, who will be a guest in your tent?" Asked David. "He was running impeccably and practicing righteousness and speak the truth in his heart." (Psalm 15: 1, 2; 25:14) As we see that serving God produces good fruit, and gave us his guidance and protection, we also know that "Jehovah is very tender in affection" .- James 5:11.
22. Jehovah wants his people to enjoy what kind of relationship?
22 How blessed we are that Jehovah desired to make such a personal relationship with imperfect humans! Therefore, should we not showing tender affection for one another? With the help of Jehovah, each of us can participate and enjoy the show tender affection as characteristic of our Christian brotherhood. Under God's Kingdom, everyone on earth will feel this affection forever.
Can You Explain?
• What kind of atmosphere should exist in the assembly?
• How can each of us can contribute to tender affection in the congregation?
• How can a sincere compliment to raise Christian affection?
• How does Jehovah's tender affection support and sustain us?
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